problems with dh

I'm glad you got your phone turned back on. The hostile roomies thing is very sad. I'm sorry that you have to go through that. I wish there was more that I could do for you. I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to though. Just PM me. >hugs<

I still say FL!
Don't put yourself through anymore stress than you're already under. I've only seen DB cry once, and that was our last day together. You're right, it was very sad, I didn't know he had those emotions in them! I say follow your heart! Just make yourself happy, and if you're happy with him, then you should stay and try to work things out. It's ultimately your life, and you know yourself best! I hope that helps a little :heart: xoxo!

you ladies are so sweet. Since it looks as if I have to stay anyway I guess that's what I'm going to do. I did get a sweet if misspelled (including my name) letter when I got home saying he's realizing how much of an ass he's been and how he wants to change. I also got a phone call today saying he loves me and wants to spend time with me and go for a walk and try counseling. I told him that I'd go on the walk and if he starts showing me how much he loves me instead of just saying it all the time and he really gets better then I'll do marriage counseling. We'll see how it goes I guess, at least with us working all the time we don't have the opportunity to fight :roll:

Good luck sweetie and I wish you the best. As I said before, follow your heart. Only you know what is best for you. I hope everything works out for you!!!

I wish I knew my heart, it would make all these decisions easier, I used to have no problems with this before dating, grrr.

I'm sorry honey. I wish I knew what to say. It sounds like you're just really confused right now. Honestly, you shouldn't worry about anything at all but what will make you happy and what you need to do to get you there. That is the important thing. >>hugs<<

The letter is a good sign!!

yeah, the letter is a good sign that he knows he is hurting you and wants to try and make amends. don't give in too easily though!!!

I'm not I try and stay a distance especially b/c he always has this draw when he touches me. And I refuse to say I love you right now till I know what's going on. I don't know I'm in such unchartered waters and I wish what was going to far and whatnot. I guess just taking it one day at a time is what's best, and at least I get an excuse to not sleep with him on the uncomfy queen bed and sleep on the oh so comfy and broken in twin lol

mjrose514 wrote:

you ladies are so sweet. Since it looks as if I have to stay anyway I guess that's what I'm going to do. I did get a sweet if misspelled (including my name) letter when I got home saying he's realizing how much of an ass he's been and how he wants to change. I also got a phone call today saying he loves me and wants to spend time with me and go for a walk and try counseling. I told him that I'd go on the walk and if he starts showing me how much he loves me instead of just saying it all the time and he really gets better then I'll do marriage counseling. We'll see how it goes I guess, at least with us working all the time we don't have the opportunity to fight :roll:

AWWWWW that is sweet I prayed for both of you already and I will continue to pray ok !!!!

thanks sha1990 we coul both use all the prayer we can get.

Wow I am so sorry honey! I am not quite sure what to say. It was good you told him how you felt! But im sorry he is being a jerk about it since he was the messing up! But i wish you the best because thats what you deserve! Good Luck with all of this im here if you need anything!