soooo nervous

Subject: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:04 am

ok so its getting down to the time that i have this child....
thy are saying like 8 weeks maybe ill go sooner.
Dh was supposed to be home next month and give me plenty of time to have her.
Well his dates keep getting pushed back and its going to be SUPER close and im so upset :(
How am i supposed to deal with this???????
I NEED him to be here for the birth i just cant do this myself :x

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 7:38 am

Youll be fine.

We dont know if my DH is coming back or not from this underway.So hes only seen his kid twice on an ultrasound if thats the case.Unless,Im dying/on bedrest/need a csection...I wont see him til about 3 months after the kid has been born.

Trust me,If I as a newly wed and 3 hours from ANY family can do this...so can you.

Dont think Im not scared...I am terrified...but I cant keep the kid in my gut forever...haha.

You'll do fabulous,m'dear!

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:32 am

lol thanks....i hope i do fine. When is your baby due again?

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:34 pm

It changed but Feb 1st...DH deploys Early Fall.

Whens your due date?

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 1:33 pm

Good luck ladies, I know you are all strong women that can handle anything thrown at you.

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 1:34 pm

my due date is september 16 but they are thinking earlier :shock:

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 1:53 pm

omg...hahahaha.

yeah when they told me Feb1st...I had been thinking Feb9th from Planned Parenthood...I had the same reaction.

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 2:06 pm

I hope he gets home in time!

But if he doesn't, it does suck. But you'll be ok :) I've done it twice by myself now. Just bring a close friend/family member, and take lots of pics for him.

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 7:08 pm

I know you're scared. That's natural, but you'll be fine. You're a strong woman and you can handle it. I hope he'll be home in time for the birth. For both of your sakes. Keep your chin up and things will work out. >>hugs<<

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 18, 2008 7:55 pm

Sweetie you will be fine! I had my daughter by myself and I was only 20.....it was crazy! I had Timmy by myself too! Yeah...I had people there to help me but I was pretty much alone....Ty was on the water (he was so close he could have swam to Va Beach).

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Sat Jul 19, 2008 2:52 am

NavyWifey07 *Naomi* wrote:: Sweetie you will be fine! I had my daughter by myself and I was only 20.....it was crazy! I had Timmy by myself too! Yeah...I had people there to help me but I was pretty much alone....Ty was on the water (he was so close he could have swam to Va Beach).

omgosh! that mustve been so frustrating for you! so close...yet so far away!

jessica youll do great! just stay positive and keep the stress down...you dont want that baby coming out TOO soon!

Subject: Re: soooo nervous Fri Jul 25, 2008 5:31 pm

I went through this.... a 6month deployment turned into 9months!!! And Kassy was 2months when patrick(dh) finally met her! I was sad and upset at first and scared because i was almost 3000 miles from home and had a 1 1/2 year old and only 1 friend here in Cali!

But you just have to be strong! You can do this! You are a magnificent Person and no matter what happens you are about to have a beautiful baby! I really hope your dh will be home But If not dont worry you will Do just Fine!!!!!!!!!! I know you can do it!!!!

***Lots of Hugs***