is he trying to hurt me ?

ok well once i thought that everthing was getting better it got worse. dh knew like a year ago that he was gonna have to go and get tested (so we can have a baby) well he just barley asked the dr. when he can go and they said tuseday well sorry he is gona be gone. so i was a little hurt because he waited so long. well then he acts like it was nothing. then he went to a concert yesterday and i never heard from him. then today he alled me and was all mad about something with our bank account and how i spent all the money. i was like we have to eat and i have to put gas in my car to drive. he says that i need to stop going to my parents house all the time and i need to stop going to tulare ( parents home) it is only like 5 mins away. i mean i live in a town i dont know anyone and there is jsut a bunch of old people living in my apartments. i tell him i go to my parents to keep me and my son busy and it is not everyday. plus my whole life is in tulare. my family, friends, job , drs, and my sons school. yes sometimes i go to my parents and stay the night but only if i have to go to an apointment or something like that the next day. he says i am wasting gas when really i am not. then he gets mad because i email my good friend who i have known since elementrary school. he is in afgan. and i email him when i have time. but dh is mad about that . i really dont understand i am starting to feel like he is trying to keep me from my friends and family. what am i suppose to do i talk to him but he just dont listen. he is leaving tomorrow and i have not talked to him at all today and when i did i was like not even 5 mins. i cant stop crying. when he was off the boat all he did was text me. gosh i am just getting tired of this and how he is acting. what is wrong?

sounds like hes just getting frustrated with the whole situation...hopefully now that you have a job that will relieve some of his stress about the finances. i think you both just need to be patient with one another and understanding that youre in a really stressful situation! good luck!