my idiot stb exdh

ok so my dh and I have split up and have been so for a couple weeks, well yesterday he decides to try and call me (haven't talked to him since he said "if you had comforted me more I wouldn't have sought it elsewhere" and then he called me the next morning. So we left it at we're getting a divorce, we'd work something out so I can keep my phone, and he won't sign the car over to me until a judge tells him to. well like i said yesterday he calls me and leaves a message (i wouldn't pick it up, just like i wouldn't pick it up on friday night) saying he just wanted to see how I was doing and he hopes I'm having a great day. then he sends me a myspace message saying "mary I miss you and I've started getting help", all while I was at work! then on my way home I try calling someone I was buying something from b/c I was stuck in traffic and low and behold he shut my phone off AGAIN without warning! so then last night i put on my myspace update thing "pm me for my new number" (luckily i had a prepaid card from the last time he shut off my phone). he had the nerve to message me again asking for it! mind you he also has me blocked from sending him comments or messages on myspace. so i changed it again to say "pm me for my new number, except ricky because it's your fault I need a new number". he then sent me another message saying "I just wanted to see how you were doing?" so I just sent him this email lol
"a) You have me blocked from sending you any messages on myspace, told you that before.

b) it's funny how you miss me and are getting 'help' and then you immediately cancel my phone without telling me AGAIN, what happened to working something out

c) it's funny that you seem to care so much and miss me, when you are talking to so many other girls, including the 'one you love' in MO.

d) I'm doing great, don't worry about me because you haven't cared enough in the past, so why should you start now. Have a great life and I really do hope you're getting help so that you can stop all this cheating and actually love yourself and one person enough so you never do it again. I'm just so done with your lies and empty promises.

e) I will leave your stuff in the apartment for you to get, i'd get it sometime soon though because they might take it, you need to call north village and tell them you plan to come get it. you will need the truck since you have the tv stand and your mother's bar stools. I'll take care of the rest of it, haven't had a chance to yet, but I will get to it soon.


God bless,
Mary
if you NEED to call me you can call brandon and he'll give me the message or you can email me, make sure you tell him WHY."

Brandon is the husband of the couple I live with and should be a number he already has. a person he's scared of lol just ticks me off.

Someone needs a beatdown...what a fucking douchebag.

It is so funny when they pull that card....I LOVE IT.

My ex gave me such bullshit lofty oscar winning reasons why we should date again (we had dated briefly 5 years earlier.) Seriously,if you couldve seen the acting job he did...my god he would've gotten an Oscar for it.I believed him hook line and sinker...and we split like 3 months.He was up to his same bullshit we had broke up for 5 years earlier.He never had the "time" to call me...work was too tiring,he was always tired,and I found out through the grapevine he was bored with me.He still to this day is like...'I wanna be friends.' Hes blocked on myspace...and I HOPE he knows I married the next guy after him...haha.Asshole.

Why would he turn off your phone, loser. Are yall still married, just in the process of divorce?

we're still married, not even legally separated yet, I'm looking for a lawyer

Then he is still getting paid for BAH so he should pay for your phone.

he never went active like he said he wanted to, which is one reason I don't have a good job now, b/c i stopped looking when he said he was going to, he just pisses me off these days, everything he does has been so selfish, i realized that no matter how great a wife I was i would have been cheated on.

he just wants more attention! i agree with shannon, douchebag!

one thing i have learned.. if he is living in the barracks or whatever then he legally has to give you ALL the BAH until you guys are legally divorced, not seperated, divorced..