dh going to army and i am scared

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:29 am

I hope that they get their s*** together soon so that you guys can move on with your lives and decide what you are going to do.

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Tue Aug 05, 2008 1:23 pm

that's typical for the military when someone want to switch branches, good luck though

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Tue Aug 05, 2008 1:35 pm

Brandon is switching to Army, but only so i can join the Army... It has been my dream forever.. I joined when i was 18 and when they did all my blood work and blah blah, they called and me told me i was pregnant, haha.. yeah i cried...

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Tue Aug 05, 2008 7:53 pm

thats funny they called you adn saidyou were prego . crazy.

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Wed Aug 06, 2008 11:27 pm

yeah when they did my blood work up and everything, my recruiter was like uhh Lyndsi can you come and see me, and i was like yea.. and i was excited to i thought i was leavin early.. i walked in he sat me down and was like im sorry but you cant go to basic and i was like ughhh why? and he goes well your pregnant i started crying!! it was BAAAD! because i was ONLY 18 and i was by myself and i knew the guy that the baby would belong to wouldnt take care of it at all.. i freaked!!!

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Thu Aug 07, 2008 2:24 am

yeah i was 16 and my ex was 17 when our son was born. and he was like i am going to be there and everything well that was a lie. i have raised my son alone for going on 7 yrs. dh helps but he is gone. and i was kind of scared of him going to the army because we are wanting our own child and i dont want to be doing that again.

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Thu Aug 07, 2008 4:19 pm

i did by myself for about a year till i met Brandon. And Brandon is in the process of adopting her. He treats her like he treats his own kids! I really lucked out!!! I had a bad situation turn good.. And i thank god every day how it all turned!!

You always carry that chance when you have a baby by somebody in the military, nobody what branch... thats just what happens!! Well since you did it for 7 yrs. i know you can do it.. so if it does happen, you will be fine!

Subject: Re: dh going to army and i am scared Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:14 am

yeah he treats my son the same way. but i guess the navy never did his army papers so now we are just waiting for the hard copie of his orders. then we are def gonna try for our own baby. i know i can do like you said i did it fo 7 yrs i can do again.